Some people feel it instantly. Others need closeness. And then there are those whose desire only comes once trust has grown. Demisexuality isn’t a phase, not a trend — it’s a sexual orientation that seeks connection over quick sparks. A term that sits between asexuality and allosexuality, final

Does the thought of playing with a zucchini or cucumber in your pussy leave you feeling fruity? Sex columnist Molly Moore gives her do's and don'ts when it comes to food dildos – so you can try masturbating with vegetables both sexily and safely. Dear Molly I recently watched a porn f

Quickies have their charm — between two meetings, as a sizzling end to a date, or simply because sometimes you just can’t get enough fast enough. But what if the exact opposite could change everything? Slow Sex isn’t just a buzzword, it’s a full-on experience for your body, your heart, and your sens

Hours of marathon solo play, porn on repeat, and letting go of reality — that’s the promise of Gooning. The term has long since moved beyond meme status: TikTok is full of clips, and niche subreddits are building whole communities around it. But what’s really behind this extreme masturbation ri

NoFap started as a meme. Now it’s a movement, a mindset, and for some, a mess. But what the hell is NoFap — and does it actually do anything for your body, your brain, or your balls? Let’s find out what’s behind the hype, the hate, and the hard-ons. What Does NoFap Actually Mea

Cuckquean or cuckqueen? Both terms are used — and they describe the same erotic dynamic: a woman or femme-presenting person watches their partner have sex with someone else and finds excitement, power, or control in exactly that. It might sound like a taboo. That’s part of what draws people in.

Ever dream of ditching control and being the good girl sitting on command? Or maybe you're the one holding the leash, commanding, teasing, watching your pet obey with wide eyes and a wagging tail? Welcome to petplay: the kink where roleplay gets raw, wild, and downright filthy (in all the best

Porn says: thrust, moan, finish — everyone’s happy. Reality says: Welcome to the Pleasure Gap, where cis men are hitting the jackpot and everyone else gets leftovers. Let’s break it down: Around 95% of men climax during sex. Only 65% of women do. And queer women? They’r

You’re right there. Gasping. Shaking. Begging to come. And then — nothing. That’s the magic of the ruined orgasm: when your release is delayed, twisted, or expertly wrecked on purpose. Not because something went wrong, but because someone wanted it that way. Sound cruel? Maybe. But fo

Ever heard of a party where everything goes, but nothing’s required? A place to dance, explore, and maybe live out that one fantasy that’s been on your mind? Welcome to the world of sex-positive parties, where sexual freedom meets a respectful community vibe. These aren’t just wild nights out — they

Ghosting sucks — it’s confusing, ***ful, and can leave you doubting yourself. Here’s why people ghost, how to deal, and how to move on feeling powerful, whether it’s a date, a friend, or even a job. Get ready to handle ghosting with grace and take your power back. We’ve all been there. One min

Okay, so you’ve done the whole dinner-and-a-movie thing. Maybe more than once. Maybe more times than you want to admit. It’s fine. But what if your next date actually made your heart race? We’re talking chemistry, real conversation, and a little main character magic. Whether it’s a spicy first

A shared sense of humor does more than spark laughter — it strengthens emotional bonds, eases stress, and keeps love feeling fresh. Whether it’s a well-timed joke that diffuses tension or a playful moment that brings you closer, humor adds warmth, connection, and resilience to any relationship. Read

A playful approach to dating can strengthen connection, ease tension, and make everyday moments more enjoyable. From small surprises to lighthearted habits, here’s how to keep things fun without overthinking it. Dating should be exciting, full of laughter, and leave you wanting more — not just

From unexpected guests to spaghetti slip-ups, these first date stories are proof that romance and ridiculousness often go hand in hand. Buckle up for some of the funniest (and strangest) first encounters ever shared. First dates can be magical... or an absolute disaster. They come with exciteme

POPCORN 2.0 just dropped — and yeah, she’s giving. Same spicy vibes you know and love, but with a sleeker face and way smoother moves. Let’s break down the glow-up. So... why the new look? Because dating’s evolved — and POPCORN needed a wardrobe change. POPCORN 2.0 is built for the

Playing the POP Game and feeling ready to help a fellow Popster out (or just flirt a little while you do)? Gifting icons is easy — and it keeps the game playful and social. Here’s how it works: To gift a piece, you first need to find someone who doesn’t have it yet. Head to their profile,

Money might not buy happiness, but it can unlock your next adventure. And now, it's easier (and faster) than ever. Meet TINK, our newest payment option: fast, safe, and totally in control. TINK is a trusted payment platform that lets you pay directly from your bank account — no card details ne

At POPCORN, the Photo Challenge isn’t just a fun game—it’s a bold invitation to be seen, celebrated, and connect through creativity. Whether you love flaunting your best angles, showing off your aesthetic, or exploring fantasies through visuals, this challenge gives you the space to do it your way.

Creating your Date Ad on POPCORN might feel like a big moment — but it doesn’t have to be stressful. What should you say? How real is too real? What makes someone swipe right instead of scrolling past? On POPCORN, your Date Ad is all about owning your vibe and attracting your kind of connection.

POPCORN isn’t your average dating app. Sure, we’ve got swipes and chats — but we also turn dating into a game. Think fun, flirty, and full of surprises. New here? This is your sneak peek into a grown-up playground built for bold connections. 1. Fantasy Swipe: Skip the sma

Hey Popster! Just landed on POPCORN and wondering what happens next? Whether you joined to explore your desires, meet new people, or just have some flirty fun, we’ve got your back. This is your go-to guide to start strong, get familiar with the features, and turn curiosity into connection. Let’s get

Ever wondered how the ecstasy and emotional rush of sex could be a boon to your health? It's true. Beyond the undeniable allure of intimacy, the health benefits of sex extend to various facets of our physical and mental well-being, often in unexpected ways. But what are these benefits, and how do th

Masturbation, a natural and common human activity, has been a part of human sexuality throughout history. As societal attitudes towards sexual wellness continue to evolve, so does the variety of tools available to enhance solo pleasure. Masturbators, also known as male masturbatory devices or stroke

Whether you're big or small, heavy or thin, celebrate your body for how it is! Popcorn.dating asked our very own Abi Brown to share her thoughts on fat sex, feminism and body image. Like many women, I often feel self-conscious in bed. It doesn’t keep me from enjoying sex, but it’s

As Condom Week wraps up, resident Popcorn.dating writer Sienna Saint-Cyr leaves you with a little latex for thought about condom effectiveness. Here's a tricky question, how much do condoms protect us from? Most of us know they protect against pregnancy - though not always. But what about



The female orgasm is a bit of a mystery to a lot of people. And it’s not just necessarily men, a lot of women have never come or looked at their vulvas. We’ll take a look at the different ways women can come and why it’s sometimes a bit of a sticky subject.
 


 
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Are you vocal during sex? 
“Don’t stop, baby! Don’t stop!” This could sound like a bad porn flick, or done right, give your partner the sense that they are doing something you like and to keep going! Being vocal during sex isn’t easy. There’s a fine balance between communication that’s hot and say

Have you ever thought about trying out your kinky side in the bedroom, but then stopped yourself because it seemed like there were a lot of rules and the whole idea of a lifestyle was a little overwhelming? Well, good news! No one ever said you had to join the BDSM world in order to have kinky sex.


Does your flirting style matter? Flirting is hilariously fun for me, but for some it’s awful. It’s the reason they avoid dating. The dreaded thing they must do in order to get someone to notice them. The irony is that many of these same people flirt constantly and are completely unaware of it

This month we're taking a closer look at nipples, because why not? Popcorn.dating's writer Abi Brown couldn’t let the topic pass by without a quick investigation of some of the best, most entertaining and most unlikely products on the market that focus on stimulating the nipples. Clips &amp


 
 


Some dating sites are all about meeting someone for a long-term relationship; others are a little more casual in their orientation, focusing on meeting people who want to have a good time without necessarily settling down.
 


 
 
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Snapsext is (or tries to be) the online dating equivalent of Snapchat. The two are owned by the same company, and Snapsext is clearly trying to ride on the coattails of Snapchat's massive success. In short, Snapsext is a portal to exchange naked pictures and communi


My experience of Plenty of Fish (website and app) has been eventful and rather daunting at times. Having signed up voluntarily, I was thrown in at the deep end of the POF lesbian dating experience. Instantly, I became a fresh piece of meat and was approached by many women who appeared to have

FriendFinder is one of thousands of dating websites available to sign up to online. With so many competitors, it is important that such a website should stand out for the right reasons. Whether the website is aimed at sex dating for those looking for a fuck buddy, or takes a more romantic approach t


 
From the moment you open the Lavalife website, the scene is set. A picture of a couple wrapped up warm and touching noses fills the screen. It’s unlikely that these two just met for a quick bang. More likely, this particular dating website is aimed at the more romantic among us who ar


 
In the hugely successful industry of online dating, there are definitely two types of dating sites- those that cater for the romantics among us who are looking for true love, and those that are designed specifically to help individuals who have a more sexually adventurous lifestyle fi


 
There aren't many people who haven’t heard of Tinder. Even if you haven’t used it yourself, you probably know plenty of people who have. But just in case you've been living in a cave on your own for the past three years, Tinder is an app designed for online dating, or more specificall


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As the name suggests, Online Booty Call is a website aimed predominantly at those looking to hook-up with a fuck buddy to fulfill their needs. Not very romantic, but in this modern era many people have a busy lifest


 
 


OkCupid professes to be best dating website on earth and with the hundreds of dating websites out there, this is quite a claim. As this OkCupid review is far from my first, I'm a little dubious. They all allege to have something different and unique to offer, but u


Fling.com: A truly free sex dating website?
 


 
Logging on to fling.com, you could be forgiven for thinking that the majority of the members are a bunch of raving nymphomaniacs who don’t own any clothes. Before you even start the process of signing up to become a


 
Ashley Madison is not your usual dating or hook-up website. Whilst the people using it are certainly looking to get laid, they’re a bit different to the average dating site user- you see, most of them are already taken. The members of this website are deliberately out to cheat on thei

Meet Brittnee Bond — founder of the Vanilla Vanilla Play Party and the heart behind some of the world’s most intimate, non-penetrative play parties. Curious to experience one for yourself? Check out her upcoming event in Berlin. “You know it’s a safe space when women feel safe enough to moan,”

Think “tech conference,” and you might picture stiff suits, startup buzzwords, and a sea of screens. But what if a tech event could be… different? What if it could be bold, body-positive, and radically human? Welcome to Sx Tech EU — a one-of-a-kind gathering where technology, sexuality,


Dear Abi explains WTF ben-wa balls are and how they keep your pelvic floor muscles in shape which makes for better sex.
 


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Is there really any point to those ben-wa balls you always see in sex toy shops? They seemed to get really trendy after being in F


What is the Eroscillator? For the third installment of my ongoing cross-website sex toy review series, I thought I’d mix it up a bit by reviewing an individual toy rather than an online toyshop. I’ll be doing both kinds of reviews in the coming weeks - and I’m open to review requests, either


Is empowerment through sexuality a myth? I recently had an argument with my mother about pole dancing. I feel like I should preface this article by saying that my mother is almost certainly cooler than yours: nothing against your mum, obviously, I’m sure she’s a lovely person with many redeem


 
 


When you’re fucking someone new, there are a lot of new things you want to try. You may have learnt a few things from an ex of yours, they may have been a squirter and now you’re trying to spread that joy… Well, it may not always be that easy. Here are 8 reasons why

Have you ever had phone sex? The thought of talking dirty on the phone while touching yourself, pretending to have sex with your partner, might be a great turn-on for some while totally off-putting for somebody else. For people in long-distance relationships, or for those who go away without their p


 
 


The female body is beautiful and at the same time, very secretive. Even though we pussy-lovers might spend a lot of time thinking about it, there are plenty of incredible facts about this particular part of a woman’s anatomy you probably didn’t know. For some surpri


 
 


Nowadays in this image-obsessed world it’s not enough that you take care of your looks in terms of hair on your head, you are also expected to style the hair you have down there. Grooming can make all the difference to your sex life but how far would you be willing

The past awkwardness surrounding the topic of female masturbation is on the decline as women become more open about exploring their own bodies The previously taboo topic is becoming more accepted as a natural practice, and one that comes with health benefits as a bonus. But let's not forget

Orgasmic meditation is the kind of practice that could only have begun in San Francisco. Half new-age sex therapy and half yoga-ish meditation, OMing, as it's called by practitioners, is focused entirely on female orgasm without the confines of traditional sexuality. OMers don their latex gloves, gr

Lyra sat in a café, fingers wrapped around a chai latte, city lights flickering in the window. But her mind was somewhere else. A thought had been looping in her head for days: a sauna, all heat and tension, where the air made everything feel closer. Not just bodies — thoughts, too. Where a look cou