Love Giving Oral: 7 Tips

We can’t always be confident about giving oral, but we can learn a few things… Whatever way you look at it, whatever you call it, ‘going down’ ‘giving head’ ‘BJ’ or even ‘licking out’ – there are many ways to love doing it. Here are 7 tips to love giving oral.

1. Show some enthusiasm

If they don’t feel like you’re really into it, they will soon reflect that mood back to you. Nobody wants to be putting their mouth to good use with someone who just lays there waiting for the grand finale. We need action, we need to know they’re enjoying it and begging you not to stop. So show some enthusiasm and you’ll soon see a difference.

2. Reciprocate

Are they a fan of oral? Well, show off your skills by reciprocating the favour for all their hard work. If they’ve given it all they’ve got, it’s only fair for your partner to sit back and relax while you let your tongue do all the work down there.

3. Get creative

The key is to keep your tongue moving. Don’t keep stopping to look up, unless you’re trying to tease the hell of out him/her. Keep the motions going, whether you’re teasing his tip or tickling her clit, there is nothing better than that unstoppable pleasure.

4. Don’t go rushing it

An orgasm doesn’t always come quickly, so you may have to be patient. If you’ve got a trick hidden up your sleeve, wait it out and pull out the big guns when you really want them to come all over your face.

5. Build up gradually

Similar to point 4, but a little more precise. When you start kissing and licking her, start slowly from the outside, building up the sensation. This will make the feeling more intense and have her squirming before you know it. For him, tease his tip until he can’t take it anymore, and don’t forget the balls.

6. Don’t forget about your hands

It’s easy to forget about what your hands are doing, whether you’re a fan of grabbing his balls or cupping her tits, make good use of the situation. You might be pulling them into you to get your tongue or his cock a bit deeper, but don’t leave your hands hanging there without putting them to use.

7. Experiment

Why not try out a new position? Catch your partner when they least expect it and take advantage of the situation and your surroundings. Give 69 a go and please each other at the same time, really testing your ability to concentrate while your partner also works their magic. Try different techniques to see what works for you, no matter where you are. Just don’t get caught.

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